How do I prepare for family law mediation?
Preparing for family law mediation is an important step in resolving disputes related to family law matters such as divorce, child custody, and property division. Here are some tips for preparing for mediation:
- Gather important documents - It can be helpful to gather any relevant documents, such as financial statements or court orders, before the mediation session. This will allow you to have all of the information you need to make informed decisions during the mediation process.
- Identify your goals and interests - Before the mediation session, take some time to think about what you hope to achieve through the mediation process. Identify your goals and interests related to the dispute, and be prepared to discuss them during the mediation session.
- Be open-minded - Mediation is a collaborative process that relies on the parties' willingness to find common ground and reach a mutually acceptable agreement. Be open-minded and willing to consider different options for resolving the dispute.
- Consult with a lawyer - If you have any questions about your rights or options, it is helpful to consult with a family lawyer before the mediation session. They can provide you with more information about your rights, provide negotiation strategy, and help you determine whether mediation is appropriate for your specific situation.
- Be prepared for emotions - Mediation can be an emotional process and it's important to be prepared for the emotions that may come up during the session. Be prepared to express your feelings in a respectful way and listen to the feelings of the other party.
- Be on time - Mediation sessions are usually scheduled on a strict time frame. Be sure to arrive on time, as the mediator may not be able to extend the session and may have to reschedule it if you are late.
For a more detailed checklist, check out our blog, Mediation Checklist for Divorce by senior family law and mediator, Melissa Salfi.
In summary, preparing for family law mediation is an important step in resolving disputes related to family law matters. It's helpful to gather important documents, identify your goals and interests, be open-minded, consult with a lawyer, be prepared for emotions, and be on time. These steps will help you have an effective mediation session, and increase the chances of reaching a mutually acceptable agreement without going to court.
